Shidduch crisis

I think people have decided that I am ready to start dating. Or at least I think they think that. Because in the last two weeks, I have had five conversations about the shidduch crisis. And how I am old by shidduch rules, but young for a widow, so maybe my chances of getting "widows and divorce pickings" (someone said that to me!) are better then other widows. Questions have been asked if I need to keep wearing a sheitel, are my kids old enough that if I was in a room with them and a potential male date, would I not be violating yichud? It is a tedium. And every night I do the same thing, curl up on my husband's bed because seriously? I am too old for this crap. Shidduch crisis or not.